Overtime, I’ve read people's long Eulogy about their first year in marriage, Oh! Wonderful stories, full of fantasy and perfection. I couldn't wait for my own big day to come. I must say, most friends on FB have not been sincere with their words. As for me, I will say the truth. The first "few" months of being a married woman was very confusing, with surprising reactions from Hubby. The environment is far much different from where I came from. Angry, Arrogant and mannerless gr oup of people (Lagos). I couldn't stand them. In fact I packed my things to run back home, then I remembered that the person I was running back to is not even in the country (my mum). So I decided to sit back. I realized miracle don't just happen in marriage what you sow into the marriage makes it successful. Then I decided to work on myself first and read things I could do to make my marriage successful. I put distractions away including social media and did a lot of studying...